Every person that has come through my life, has taught me a lesson. Whether that person is still in my life or not, they have taught me something.
I am the type of person that tries to take lessons that I have learned and bring them with me through the rest of my journey. I am definitely one to over analyze a situation until I can find a reason as to why it happened, then I try to learn from it.
But luckily, if I don't learn it the first time, history definitely has a way of repeating itself. So anyways... here are some of the things that I have learned throughout some relationships that I have encountered so far.
I am the type of person that tries to take lessons that I have learned and bring them with me through the rest of my journey. I am definitely one to over analyze a situation until I can find a reason as to why it happened, then I try to learn from it.
But luckily, if I don't learn it the first time, history definitely has a way of repeating itself. So anyways... here are some of the things that I have learned throughout some relationships that I have encountered so far.
- Admit when you are wrong but don't gloat when you're right.
- Don't compare yourself to others, what you have is enough.
- Bickering is healthy, you need to feel all emotions so you can feel alive.
- You can't fix everything, sometimes you just need to accept it.
- You can't do everything, that's why you have someone by your side to help you.
- Everyday is Valentine's Day. Show your love daily.
- Just because you make a mistake, does not mean you are a bad person.
- Value your your family and the people in your life, not the things in your life.
- You only live once, so live.
- Surround yourself only with the people that enhance your life, not complicate your life.
- Kick ass, don't kiss it.
- What happened yesterday, happened yesterday. Move on.
- Work for enjoyment, not money.
- Marry your best friend.
- Nobody is perfect, don't hold others mistakes against them.
- Sticks and stones.
- No relationship is perfect, even if it looks like that on the surface.
- Do not sacrifice your opinions for others.
- "Don't raise your voice, improve your argument."
- Just because you say no, does not mean that you have to explain yourself.
- If someone causes your more stress than happiness, something needs to be done.
- Know when it is time to walk away.
- If a relationship is worth fighting for, you will fight for it.
- Don't wait until tomorrow to start your life.
- Sometimes you need to let people go.
- Own up to your mistakes.
- Mentality is everything.
- Your actions will effect your life.
- Worrying does nothing for you, it just makes situations worse.
- Communication is everything.
- You don't need sex to have a great relationship.
- You can have different opinions, just don't shove them in each others faces.
- You can't beat impossible people, so stop trying.
- Negative influences are a real thing. Stop giving into the pressure of others.
- Patience really is everything.
- Don't go to others for help first, try to work your problems out independently.
- Every relationship takes effort.
- You can't fix someone else's problems.
- Love yourself, and others will love your back.